6 vital parts of any ‘real’ church

We are designed for community, but something beyond mere community. We are designed for the church.

After 40 plus years of walking with God I have met plenty of unhealthy Christians who belong to a church, but I have never met a healthy Christian who does not belong to a church.

What are we to do with this? The currently popular solution is to hang out informally with our believing friends and declare, "This is my church. These people know me and love me. I receive nothing from organized religion."

We are designed for community, but something beyond mere community. We are designed for the church. Click To Tweet

It’s difficult to stand in defense of the church when the church is so screwed up. It’s a terrible a way to run a railroad, but apparently the Father thinks it’s worth the risk. We are designed for community, but also something beyond mere community. We are designed for the church.

Many will object, and I invite you all to tell me gruesome tales of hypocrites, self-righteous blowhards, and sexual predators. I get it. The North American church is desperately sick, and in many cases the 
church hinders the spiritual growth of believers.

The bottom line is this: church is God’s idea and we ignore it at our peril. Click To Tweet

But before we all decide have coffee and croissants down the street with the cool kids and call it a new kind of church, I’d like to suggest that God has given us a few clues about what He thinks makes up a church. The bottom line is this: church is God’s idea and we ignore it at our peril.

Six vital parts of any 'real' church

It’s a book-length discussion - a life-length discussion, actually - but here is a list of at least six vital parts of any real church.

1. The church meets together regularly

Sunday morning isn’t the only possibility. In fact, Acts 2:42-47 suggests the early church met together far more than North Americans might find comfortable. In a variety of settings, for a multitude of reasons, followers of Jesus meet together regularly and share their lives together. Location isn't important, but regular, habitual gathering is a mark of the church.

2. The church has a defined structure

Structure is built into God’s order of creation. Single-celled organisms reveal astonishing complexity of function; in the human body there is individualized function. Without the structure of a skeleton, the body cannot stand.

These physical realities point toward spiritual truth. Amazingly, scripture seems to endorse a variety of church structures, but every New Testament church had a recognizable structure. We can disagree on what that structure may look like, but it’s not possible to read Acts or the Epistles without recognizing its importance.

3. The church provides authority

Authority! Just mention the word and people tense up. Abuses abound, guilt is common currency, and the church in North American differs little from any business down the street. Yet, we all must personally come to terms with passages like, “Obey your leaders and submit to their authority” (Hebrews 13:17). Paul’s letters to Timothy and Titus could be considered all about authority.

Nearly everyone has a horror-story about abuse of authority in the church. Here’s my take: authority without compassion and relationship makes a sham of God’s Kingdom, but compassion and relationship without authority misses God’s Kingdom entirely.

4. The church is a proving ground for love and forgiveness

“Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity” (Colossians 3: 12- 14).

These words are impossible to live out in isolation. I believe the Father designed families and churches as the venues for love and forgiveness. How can we live out these words apart from our families, or the church - which is the family of God?

5. The church equips God’s people

Christian maturity requires a nurturing family atmosphere. Gifts of the Holy Spirit and the development of Christian character thrive in a healthy community.

Entertainment apart from equipping is antithetical to God’s plan for the church and there are plenty of churches that amount to nothing more than TV shows. But fellowship and community without equipping also falls short of the mark. If there's no equipping going on, it's not the church. Jesus is into lab, not lecture. And it's not recess, either.

6. The church provides a unique corporate witness

There have been exceptional individuals throughout history. Saints and geniuses appear larger than life, and because they are are so exceptional, they are easily dismissed as individuals, even freaks.

But who could dismiss an entire community of faith? “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another,” said Jesus in John 13: 34. “By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

The early church would either get you healed or care for you until you died. Widows, orphans and outcasts of the first century knew there was a refuge called “the church.”

Be the change you wish to see

Object if you will - it’s easy to do. The church has failed in every area. Today’s post is not a defense of the way things are. The church in North America is desperately sick.

Some things should change. I believe the change begins with us as individuals. If you must leave your current church, then go. But where? If you can find a group of believers attempting to fulfill these six ideals you will land in a safe place. Leaving a sick church may be the best decision. Ignoring God’s plan for your personal growth as a disciple apart from the church, never is.

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Ray helps people and organizations navigate change. He’s has written about faith and culture for the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association, ChurchLeaders.com, SermonCentral.com, Relevant Magazine, My Faith Radio, and Collide Magazine. He currently lives among the irenic hills of central Kentucky, which are filled with faith and culture. Ray's latest book is entitled Deeper Grace. He blogs at studentsofjesus.com

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